Connecting the dots – Part 2
There is no plan... well, maybe a little one.
In my previous post, Connecting the dots - Part 1, I provided three sources of inspiration for this three part series.
While I may not share much in common with Steve Jobs - aside from a first name, I do feel I have to stop trying to connect my dots looking forward. I've been in the business of software development for over 25 years now. Truth be told, if I had to do it all over again, I would still be in this business - but I'd do things a little different. There's nothing I love more than creating things. And the only thing more exhilarating that thinking
Wouldn't it be great if you could... yada yada yada"
is actually bringing it to life.
Back in the dot com days, I was fortunate enough to get asked to join a start-up. We put together an e-learning solution & without going into too much detail, I have yet seen anything better. But as you may have guessed, it was a dot com & it suffered the same fate as many. I held on for three years, despite only being paid for one & picking up the odd contract here & there. Others, for their own reasons, clung on to hope even longer. For myself, with a wife (Anna), two kids (Sara & Alex) and many of the other things that come along with them, it was the hardest lesson I ever learned. It was also the best time of my life. From early morning conference calls to one's that stretched into Sara's soccer games, or, Alex' bottle, to working through the night feeling quilty while Anna was alone watching TV, or asleep in bed. We were at it 24x7 and would gladly have worked more if we could have only found a way.
What started from a 10-minute phone call, went to whiteboard, proof-of-concept, alpha, beta and live. For the first time in my development life, I actually understood and contributed to the value of marketing, sales, service & support. It was the best & the worst all neatly bound together. But my dot (com) s were not going to connect as dreamed.
Within a few months, I was fortunate to get a much appreciated job with IBM Canada's Montreal Rational Software Lab. And while it was a great experience, I never really felt my dots would all of a sudden start aligning. And so, as Seth Godin might say, it was a good Dip-dot, but a dot nonetheless.
And so, here I am. If you've seen any of my last few posts, then you may know I've been trying to build a case for the shared services of a Community Product Manager. To be quite honest, it's been a tough sale. Not so much because the concept lacks merit, but more so because it's difficult to only talk about delivering value. Today, you have to deliver value first and then build on that in order to get the business. Unfortunately, the cost of delivering first and selling later - in this particular case, is just too high for me. So I'm going to consider this a little Dip-dot and simply move on.
My next and final post in this three-part series will lay the foundation for my next dot. In the meantime, it'd be nice if any of you could share some of your own dot-stories here.
OK, maybe you Got It, but will They?
Hmmm... maybe one more change
Most of my posts take a few days to write. I tend to write my first draft as a collection of thoughts and then start piecing them together. Most times, I sleep on it and return with different thoughts and maybe even a different perspective. Sometimes, especially when I've recorded my sketches and voice over, I may redo everything. That's a tougher decision to make because of all the effort involved in creating those things. And finally, sometimes I'll go through the whole cycle again simply because I inadvertently fell asleep putting the kids - Sara (11) and Alex (7) to bed. That too may result in an update since my best ideas usually come to me when I'm away from the keyboard and completely mellowed out with them.
Sticky?
I have a few ideas rumbling around in my head that I think are pretty slick. They're actually quite simple. But that's in my mind. You see I've spend quite a few nights snuggling with Sara & Alex, so I've gone through the above scenario more than once.
Pitching an idea is an art. I've been in a start-up before & was always fascinated by how the pitches were modified based on the audience. So whether I want to bounce the idea off of a friend, or colleague, or, am pinned to give the proverbial elevator pitch to a VP, it has to be good. It has to stick.
So I'm now reading Chip and Dan Heath's book Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die and have to admit, it is sticky. I am without a doubt more conscientious about how I express myself.
Beyond 'Getting It'
But... Didn't you ever wonder if you actually "got it"? Didn't you ever wonder if you were able to do it justice? If the author, teacher, mentor were to review your work, would you get a
out of them?
Depending on the situation, following through with that new approach can be a leap of faith. You get one shot to make your pitch. Are you going to risk it all on;
- Did you get it?
- Did you do it justice in your preparation? Or,
- Did you even take the right advice?
Here's a little story
We have an amazing instant messaging tool - IBM's Lotus Sametime, which lets you find anyone working in the company - IBM . Like many of these tools, it has Presence Awareness - you can tell everyone whether you're "Available", "Away from the computer now", "In a meeting"... yada yada yada. But not like any other competing tools I've experienced, you can also see where anybody is in the organization chart, who they report to, their title, piers, who reports to them and loads more.
A few months ago I was looking for a new job within IBM and was chatting with my colleague Angus Mcintyre. Angus pointed me to a few other names that may be able to help me out. I usually check their info first before pinging them (checking if they could chat) but this time I forgot. I pinged Jeff Schick, a VP. Normally I would never ping so high up in the food chain but what was done was done. So I forged on.
By the end of the day I had a 30 minute phone call scheduled with Jeff at 7 AM - the next morning. I really wish I would've read the Heath brothers' book back then. But, I was in the middle of another excellent book - Dan Roam's The Back of the Napkin: Solving Problems and Selling Ideas with Pictures which I blogged about in Lots of pictures. I stayed up till 3 AM sketching my brains out trying to figure out how am I going to get my message across. To be clear, let's review the situation:
- I have a VP
- He's never heard of me before
- I was persistent with his assistant to get any time on his calendar. (In a company of more than 390,000 employees, we are actually encouraged to be "persistent". But one never knows for sure how its received.)
- He was going out his way to talk to me
- It was 7 AM
- I had less than 30 minutes
I took that leap of faith & trusted that I had gotten enough of the book to pull it off. I sketched my last 20 years of experience in one image and called it "How [my profile image] came to [Jeff's profile image] and Why". I set up an ad hoc meeting with Sametime Unyte to share the image with Jeff and Sametime'ed (sent him an instant message with) the web site address (URL). Snafu. Jeff pushed back. It was too early in the morning for this sort of thing. So, I immediately apologized and backed off. I said he could just close the window but I'll keep mine open because I'm sure the answer to any question he has in there somewhere.
It wasn't easy and to this day I have no idea if Jeff actually saw my work or not. I do know that his first question was something like "So how did you come to me & what can I do to help you out?" It was an awesome phone call and I certainly did achieve some results.
Netting it out. Can you do it?
Another colleague of mine, Claudia Mueller Thompson, once advised me that you've got to net it out for execs. Don't ever send them flowing prose in email expecting them to scroll and scroll through your War & Peace email. Make it one sentence - preferably with no punctuation. These folks are constantly being bombarded with distractions. They could easily have someone in their office, already be on a conference call and have Sametime chat windows firing off like popcorn.
So if you - the genius behind your idea, can't net it out in less than one sentence, then how do you expect the person on the receiving end to Get It?
Imagine test driving your one-liner elevator pitches
Imagine you were posting something that, if done right, could really help your career. I'm sure you can because that's apparently one of the reasons why people blog. (I wish I could find that link again.)
Try doing this. You could create a survey (for free) at SurveyMonkey and
- Add the link to your blog, or email message
- Use Twitter to broadcast it
Thanks to Michael Stelzner for introducing me to SurveyMonkey.
Please take my survey Which one of these titles is the stickiest?.
Be sure to follow me on http://twitter.com/stevenmilstein and I'll tweet whenever I get results.
Reflection
Can you see yourself doing something like this? Give it a shot & please come back to let me know how it worked out for you. In the meantime, I'll be more than happy to respond to your survey. And if we collaborate, then the next time you question whether you can net it out or not, you know the answer will be Yes We Can. Sorry, I just couldn't help my self

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