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		<title>Can You Spot My Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Moment? Part 2</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/ReesesCommercial-35892_300x200.jpg"/></p>How I'm combining two seemingly separate lean start-ups into one complimentary offering, yet still affording me the possibility of either one, or, better yet both launching a business.
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<li><a href='http://stevenmilstein.com/2010/09/07/can-you-spot-my-reeses-peanut-butter-cup-moment-part-1/' rel='bookmark' title='Can You Spot My Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Moment? Part 1'>Can You Spot My Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Moment? Part 1</a> <small>Looking for a way to take two start-ups, seemingly worlds...</small></li>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/ReesesCommercial-35892_300x200.jpg"/></p><blockquote><p>#7. PRACTICE THE ART OF COLLISION</p>
<p>The Reese&#8217;s Peanut Butter Cup is a metaphor for life. What seems completely new is often just an unexpected combination of the familiar but previously disconnected. This is Innovation 101, but too often we forget, and think the one asset we have is the answer, rather than asking what we can bundle it with to transform its value.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; <a href="http://www.fahrenheit-212.com/#/innovation/about-us/our-people/mark-payne/" target="_blank">Mark Payne</a> on <a href="http://www.business-strategy-innovation.com/2009/07/ten-tenets-of-transformation.html">Blogging Innovation: The Ten Tenets of Transformation &#8211; Innovation blog articles, videos, and insights</a></p>
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<h2>Background</h2>
<p>In my previous <a href="http://stevenmilstein.com/2010/09/07/can-you-spot-my-reeses-peanut-butter-cup-moment-part-1/">post</a>, I described how I was struggling with my lean start-up sales and marketing efforts on seemingly two separate fronts. In keeping with my <strong>perseverance</strong> theme, here&#8217;s how I combining these two  into one complimentary offering, yet still affording me the possibility of either one, or, better yet both launching a business.</p>
<h2>Ingredients</h2>
<ol>
<li>My peanut butter &#8211; <a href="http://AnotherSocialEconomy.com" target="_blank">AnotherSocialEconomy</a>: A service that anonymously connects consumers &#8211; who already know exactly what they want with local retailers &#8211; who actually have it in stock. It&#8217;s like <a href="http://www.google.com/intl/en_us/products/local.html" target="_blank"><strong>Google Local Shopping</strong></a> only <strong>way simpler</strong> and <strong>more accessible</strong> for <strong>small and medium-size businesses</strong> (<strong>SMB</strong>).</li>
<li>My chocolate &#8211; <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a>: A social software platform enabling collaboration not just within the class, school but across geographies. It&#8217;s like Facebook, YouTube, Flickr, MSN, Twitter, Blogger, Wikipedia, iTunes, Digg, Google Calendar and more, all in one <strong>integrated and monitored web site</strong>.</li>
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<h2>Directions</h2>
<ol>
<li>Offer limited <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a> <strong>membership</strong> to <strong>local</strong> schools and organizations providing extra-curricular activities for <strong>free</strong>.</li>
<li>Offer limited <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a> <strong>education and mentoring</strong> services to students, teachers, staff and parents on how to get the most of the platform with regard to sharing, commenting and rating content &#8211; for <strong>free</strong>.</li>
<li>Offer limited <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a> education and mentoring services to students, teachers, staff and parents on how to get the most of the platform with regard to <strong>self-organizing projects and events</strong> thereby reducing phone calls and oodles of emails with attachments.</li>
<li>Add <a href="http://anothersocialeconomy.com/whats-with-widgets/" target="_blank">AnotherSocialEconomy Widget</a> to <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a>.</li>
<li>Offer those edu organizations free <strong>local Sponsor</strong> links in <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a>.</li>
<li>Offer those edu organizations the opportunity to become <a href="http://anothersocialeconomy.com/" target="_blank">AnotherSocialEconomy</a> Retailers, <a href="http://anothersocialeconomy.com/influencers/" target="_blank">Influencers</a>, <a href="http://anothersocialeconomy.com/resellers/" target="_blank">Resellers</a> and/or <a href="http://anothersocialeconomy.com/referrers/" target="_blank">Referrers</a>.</li>
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<h2>(Should) Yield</h2>
<p>Our Reeses Pieces should consist of a <strong>hyper-local</strong> (thanks Flack Maguire) <strong>online community</strong> of consumers and retailers/merchant/service providers. If we <strong>succeed</strong> in <strong>educating</strong> and <strong>mentoring</strong> are target <a href="http://edu.cyn.in" target="_blank">edu.cyn.in</a> audience, we could have one, or, two adult pair of eyes for every student pair of eyeballs. So one class of 25 students could yield anywhere between 2 and 50 additional eyeballs on edu.cyn.in. The better we educate and <strong>help folks adopt</strong> the social software, the greater chances we have of increasing those hyper-local eyeballs. The more eyeballs, the greater the chances we have of getting folks to use AnotherSocialEconomy&#8217;s Widget. More local consumers, more local merchants.</p>
<p>Additionally, since we&#8217;re also <a href="http://cynapse.com" target="_blank">Cynapse</a> Reseller, we&#8217;ve also introduced a whole new crop of <strong>highly qualified prospects</strong> into our sales funnel.</p>
<h2>Stay Tuned</h2>
<p>Please feel free to comment below and let me know your predictions. Will our ingredients yield another Reeses Pieces, or, is this plan going to curdle? Just remember, the alternative approach could be to pay Google AdWords $7500 a month for pay-per-click search engine marketing (SEM) and pray that&#8217;s cheaper than the time and hosting frees we&#8217;re currently investing.</p>
<p>Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://stevenmilstein.com/2010/09/07/can-you-spot-my-reeses-peanut-butter-cup-moment-part-1/' rel='bookmark' title='Can You Spot My Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Moment? Part 1'>Can You Spot My Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Moment? Part 1</a> <small>Looking for a way to take two start-ups, seemingly worlds...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://stevenmilstein.com/2009/10/01/the-start-up-chronicles-chapter-2-who-part-4/' rel='bookmark' title='The Start-Up Chronicles: Chapter 2. Who, Part 4'>The Start-Up Chronicles: Chapter 2. Who, Part 4</a> <small>Partnering, building communities and pitching social software to Sara's elementary...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://stevenmilstein.com/2009/04/17/lessons-learned-from-social-content-20-circle-of-life-part-3/' rel='bookmark' title='Lessons learned from Social Content 2.0 Circle of Life &#8211; Part 3'>Lessons learned from Social Content 2.0 Circle of Life &#8211; Part 3</a> <small>My outside your firewall, shared listening and engaging Community Product...</small></li>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/WorldsApart-iStock_000000627564XSmall-165117_283x200.jpg"/></p><blockquote><p>#7. PRACTICE THE ART OF COLLISION</p>
<p>The Reese&#8217;s Peanut Butter Cup is a metaphor for life. What seems completely new is often just an unexpected combination of the familiar but previously disconnected. This is Innovation 101, but too often we forget, and think the one asset we have is the answer, rather than asking what we can bundle it with to transform its value.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; <a href="http://www.fahrenheit-212.com/#/innovation/about-us/our-people/mark-payne/" target="_blank">Mark Payne</a> on <a href="http://www.business-strategy-innovation.com/2009/07/ten-tenets-of-transformation.html">Blogging Innovation: The Ten Tenets of Transformation &#8211; Innovation blog articles, videos, and insights</a></p>
<div id="attachment_1700" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 293px"><a href="http://stevenmilstein.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/WorldsApart-iStock_000000627564XSmall.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1700" title="Worlds Apart?" src="http://stevenmilstein.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/WorldsApart-iStock_000000627564XSmall.jpg" alt="Worlds Apart?" width="283" height="424" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Worlds Apart?</p></div>
<h2>The Chronicles</h2>
<p>Peruse my blog and you&#8217;ll see I pretty much chronicle my experiences as an ultra light, non-funded, start-up entrepreneur. You&#8217;ll also see that I divide my time, not necessarily equally, among two main efforts: 1) called <strong>:Twetailer</strong>, which has morphed into <strong>:AnotherSocialEconomy</strong> and 2) <strong>:edu.cyn.in</strong>. While both were born out of a burning desire to <strong>correct something</strong> I found profoundly <strong>wrong</strong>, yet so <strong>&#8220;simple&#8221; to fix</strong>, I&#8217;ve always considered them to be <strong>worlds apart</strong>. That was until I tried to fill a void in my execution plans &#8211; sales &amp; marketing. Now I know these are not subjects to be treated lightly but, in my own defense, I was primarily concerned about the Guy Kawasaki lesson <a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/2006/10/how_to_change_t.html#axzz0yOpwVgA0">How to Change the World: <strong>Defensibility</strong></a>. With all that reasonably taken care, I started educating myself on <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Search_engine_marketing">Search Engine Marketing</a> (SEM). As a matter of fact, my very <a href="http://stevenmilstein.com/2010/08/31/why-our-widgets-whip-click-through-or-pay-per-click-ads/" target="_blank">last post</a> was how I used that new knowledge to rethink AnotherSocialEconomy&#8217;s :Widget. Who knew? It was not only another entry point/channel/stream into the system (remember, I&#8217;m a techie) but it actually <strong>competes </strong>- quite nicely, with Pay-Per-Click (<a href="http://www.marketingterms.com/dictionary/pay_per_click/" target="_blank">PPC)</a>, Cost Per Click-through (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_per_click" target="_blank">CPC</a>) and Cost Per Action (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cost_per_action" target="_blank">CPA</a>).</p>
<h2>Selling sucks</h2>
<p>In the early days, I tried getting schools to pay for the <strong>edu.cyn.in</strong> service but, being a techie and not a sales rep, failed. There was either not enough budget to go around, not enough qualified staff to support the service, or, simply the <strong>FUD Factor</strong> (Fear Uncertainty and Doubt). But I&#8217;m a persistent bugger and based on my prior experience with social software on the Internet, within enterprises and even within schools, I  just couldn&#8217;t give up.</p>
<p>I knew the service was greatly <strong>appreciated </strong>by the <strong>kids</strong>. I knew the service was greatly appreciated by <strong>educators </strong>- albeit a special select few. And as a <strong>parent</strong>, I also knew the <strong>frustration </strong>of organizing events, committee meetings, car pools, other extra-curricular activities and even purchasing related goods and services.</p>
<p>And on top of all this pressure to sell <strong>edu </strong>into schools, I was still struggling to sell <strong>AnotherSocialEconomy</strong> &#8211; which needed a way to reach retailers &amp; consumers.</p>
<h2>Started getting that sinking feeling</h2>
<p>Things just seemed to be getting worse.  Was I going to be one of those start-ups with a great idea &#8211; in my case, two great ideas that no one other than myself, <a href="http://domderrien.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dom</a> &amp; a few others knew about? It&#8217;s not like I don&#8217;t know my <strong>limitations</strong>.  I think I&#8217;m a pretty good technical business analyst, software product manager, maybe even a social media manager. I love pre-sales demos, presenting at shows and conferences, have a pretty cool online education story to tell, love story telling and I&#8217;m pretty pleased with my stickman <a href="http://www.youtube.com/stevenmilstein" target="_blank">videos</a> and presentation creations. But I just can&#8217;t seem to get past this <strong>marketing &amp; sales hump</strong>. I&#8217;ve tried to bring in others but it just hasn&#8217;t gelled yet. <strong>Maybe</strong> some<strong> seed money</strong> would be the way to go. Either way, if I don&#8217;t get any traction, I&#8217;ll probably have to <strong>drop </strong><strong>edu</strong>. Yikes! That would really hurt because not only have the <a href="http://Cynapse.com" target="_blank">Cynapse</a> folks been more than fair with me (I&#8217;m also a struggling Reseller), it would mean that my daughter <strong>Sara</strong> &amp; friends would<strong> lose </strong>the service.</p>
<h2>Perseverance</h2>
<p>Back in my <strong>IBM</strong> days, Perseverance was not only a <strong>welcomed characteristic</strong>, but<strong> encouraged</strong> too (by some)<strong>.</strong> In a company of over 390,000 (at the time), it was all too easy to say things like; &#8220;<strong>I&#8217;m waiting</strong> for so-and-so to get back to me&#8221;, or, &#8220;Today&#8217;s first agenda item is to decide when we&#8217;ll <strong>meet again</strong> to discuss this matter&#8221;. If you <strong>truly wanted</strong> to make a difference, you had to <strong>persevere</strong> &#8211; you had to <strong>press</strong> on<strong> people</strong>, <strong>press</strong> a few <strong>buttons</strong>, or, as my wife Anna says, I just had to continue being the <strong>real pain in the ass</strong> I can be.</p>
<p>Dropping <strong>edu</strong>, dropping, <strong>AnotherSocialEconomy</strong>, getting a real job are options I&#8217;m just not ready to accept yet. What I really have to do is find a <strong>better way to persevere</strong>.</p>
<h2>Suggestions?</h2>
<p>Do you have any suggestions on how I can make edu &amp; AnotherSocialEconomy <strong>work for each other</strong>? Stay tuned for Part 2.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/BillGates_PaulAllen_EarlyYears_TimeMagazineCover-259167_300x200.png"/></p><p><strong>How to turn an unknown social network of yours into your kids safety net and maybe even help you start connecting too.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Be nice to nerds. Chances are you&#8217;ll end up working for one.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; <a href="http://thinkexist.com/quotation/be_nice_to_nerds-chances_are_you-ll_end_up/147234.html">Bill Gates</a></p>
<div id="attachment_1501" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 619px"><a href="http://www.time.com/time/photogallery/0,29307,1630529_1380714,00.html"><img class="size-full wp-image-1501" title="Cover of Time Magazine: Early years of Bill Gates and Paul Allen" src="http://stevenmilstein.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/BillGates_PaulAllen_EarlyYears_TimeMagazineCover.png" alt="Geniuses at Work: Bill Gates watches his friend and future Microsoft co-founder Paul Allen typing on a teletype terminal at the Lakeside School in Seattle in 1968. Gates was 13 when he entered the exclusive prep school, which was around the time this photo was taken." width="609" height="403" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Geniuses at Work: Gates watches his friend and future Microsoft co-founder Paul Allen typing on a teletype terminal at the Lakeside School in Seattle in 1968. Gates was 13 when he entered the exclusive prep school, which was around the time this photo was taken.</p></div>
<h1>Background</h1>
<p>I have two start-up projects underway. The first, <a href="http://twetailer.com">Twetailer</a> was inspired by one of those &#8220;<strong>OMG! Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if you could just yada yada yada?</strong>&#8221; moments. The second, <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">http://edu.cyn.in</a>, was not. No <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a>, was created out of my 11-year old daughter Sara&#8217;s frustration with her school&#8217;s computer curriculum. Complaints like: &#8220;Why do I care if something is <em>bold</em>?&#8221;, or, &#8220;<em>Insert a column?</em> When am I ever going to need <em>that</em> when I grow up?&#8221;. <strong>Yikes! Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if Sara could actually use technology for something she cared about?</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><span class="largeprint"><strong>You can&#8217;t always get what you want</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p>- Mick Jagger, The Rolling Stones</p>
<p>But Sara also shared the frustration she felt when some of her friends &#8211; who are on <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/facebook" title="Facebook" rel="homepage" href="http://facebook.com">Facebook</a>, kept urging others to join up, even though they know the minimun age is 14. Similarly for those with MSN, or, gmail accounts. And while I love seeing kids adopt technology, there are valid reasons why these services have age requirements. So, <strong>as a parent</strong>, what do you do? Do you stick to the rules &amp; tell them to wait until they&#8217;re old enough? Do you let them waste their effortless ability to embrace these social technologies and stick to making things bold &amp; inserting colums?</p>
<blockquote><p><span class="largeprint"><strong>But if you try sometimes, you get what you need</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p>- Mick Jagger, The Rolling Stones</p>
<p>So again, <strong>as a parent</strong>, how do we monitor our kids&#8217; activities on the Net? <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/google" title="Google" rel="homepage" href="http://google.com">Google</a> it. Here&#8217;s <a href="http://drphil.com/articles/article/603">Dr. Phil.com &#8211; Advice &#8211; Monitor Your Child&#8217;s Cell Phone and Internet Activity</a>. There are lots of sites offering all kinds of advice. But mostly all of them assume one thing &#8211; that you are as tech savy as your kids. And let&#8217;s face it, kids have a lot more time &amp; friends to show them how than most parents do.</p>
<p>But what if you were able to trust another parent to monitor your kid&#8217;s activities for you? Like when you let your little one go on a playdate to a friend&#8217;s house, or, they&#8217;re invited to the movies. If you trust the friend&#8217;s parents then you let them go.</p>
<h1>Perhaps your first digital social safety net</h1>
<p><a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a> started out to be a way for Sara &amp; her Grade 6 classmates to socialize in a secured and <strong>monitored</strong> Internet playground. A place where they could experience the power of blogs, wikis, discussions, audio, video, image sharing, etc. while learning the new minimun skills sets required in today&#8217;s digital and globally distributed workplace. Pretty soon, <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a> will be made available for the rest of her school and any other school interested under the following conditions:</p>
<ol>
<li>The student has to be attending an <strong>edu</strong>cational institution registered with <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a></li>
<li>There must be at least one parent/guardian, teacher/faculty member <strong>monitoring</strong> that student&#8217;s grade.</li>
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<p>In Sara&#8217;s case, <strong>I</strong> monitored her grade. Did that mean all the other parents trusted me (and <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a> with their children&#8217;s related activities? Not necesarly. It turns out, most didn&#8217;t have a choice. Over the course of the project, I spoke with a few parents and they simply felt they didn&#8217;t have the skill sets to monitor. Even after informing them its just a matter of reading their email, they still felt uncomfortable with this &#8220;type of stuff&#8221;, but looked forward to watching how their kids used it.</p>
<h1>Do the math</h1>
<p>So in essence, condition #2 above, became those <strong>parents&#8217; new social safety net</strong>. All they needed was <strong>one adult out of twenty students</strong>, to feel comfortable enough to watch over their child in their new digital playground. Is this any different than letting your child go to the movies, or, a school field trip with a parent like that?</p>
<p>My parents always told me: &#8220;All we want is for you to have more opportunities than we did growing up.&#8221; And they certainly succeeded. <strong>As a parent</strong> in today&#8217;s digital world, it would be a shame not to continue the tradition. <a href="http://edu.cyn.in">edu</a> gives those who aren&#8217;t as connected as their kids the opportunity to do just that.</p>
<h1>Reflection</h1>
<p>What are your thoughts abouts giving your kids access to things like Facebook, <a href="http://www.msn.com">MSN</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/friendfeed" title="FriendFeed" rel="homepage" href="http://friendfeed.com">Friendfeed</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/myspace" title="MySpace" rel="homepage" href="http://myspace.com">MySpace</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/twitter" title="Twitter" rel="homepage" href="http://twitter.com">Twitter</a>, <a href="http://www.google.com/talk/">Google Talk</a>, <a href="http://products.aim.com/">AIM</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/bebo" title="Bebo" rel="homepage" href="http://www.bebo.com">Bebo</a>, <a href="http://buzzup.com/">buzzup</a>, <a href="http://delicious.com/">Delicious</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/digg" title="Digg" rel="homepage" href="http://www.digg.com">digg</a>, <a href="http://mail.google.com">Gmail</a>, <a href="http://www.mister-wong.com/">Mister Wong</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/reddit" title="Reddit" rel="homepage" href="http://reddit.com/">Reddit</a>, <a class="zem_slink" title="StumbleUpon" rel="homepage" href="http://www.stumbleupon.com/">Stumbleupon</a>, <a href="http://www.twine.com/">twine</a>, <a href="http://wordpress.com">WordPress</a> and <a class="zem_slink freebase/guid/9202a8c04000641f800000000014de46" title="Yahoo!" rel="homepage" href="http://www.yahoo.com">Yahoo</a>? Do you have the skills to monitor their activities across all these sites? What percent of parents do you think can?  Where do you fit in this <a href="http://royal.pingdom.com/2010/02/16/study-ages-of-social-network-users/">Study: Ages of social network users | Royal Pingdom</a>?</p>
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		<title>The Start-Up Chronicles: Chapter 2. Who, Part 4</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/StartUpChronicles_2_4-26220_300x200.jpg"/></p>Partnering, building communities and pitching social software to Sara's elementary school.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-content/uploads/et_temp/StartUpChronicles_2_4-26220_300x200.jpg"/></p><p><strong>Partnering, building communities and pitching social software to Sara&#8217;s elementary school.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Cut win-win deals.</strong> A partnership seldom takes place between equals. As a result, the more powerful side is tempted to squeeze the other party. The weaker side, for its part, will begrudgingly accept such deals and try to get what it can. Bad idea. Bad karma. Bad practicality. If the partnership is a win-lose deal, it will blow up because concrete walls and barbed wire cannot hold a partnership together. Only mutually beneficial results can. In the long, the bitter seed of resentment planted at the start of a partnership will grow into a giant, destructive weed.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; <a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/2006/02/the_art_of_part.html#ixzz0SbwIWCR6">The Art of Partnering, Guy Kawasaki</a></p>
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<div class="largeprint">Background</div>
<p>A couple of posts ago, I wrote about building communities to help drive my start-up&#8217;s outside-in software development and my working relationship with the good folks at <a href="http://cynapse.com">Cynapse</a>.  And while my <a href="http://stevenmilstein.com/2009/09/16/homage-to-techcrunch50-2009-its-organizers-and-participants/">last post</a> was &#8211; for the most part, about getting to be a <a class="zem_slink" title="TechCrunch50" rel="homepage" href="http://www.TechCrunch50.com">TechCrunch50</a>&#8216;s semi-finalist, I did end with my desire to sow the social software seeds in my daughter Sara&#8217;s elementary school.</p>
<div class="largeprint">Motivation</div>
<p>As a passionate software entrepreneur and social software evangelist, it breaks my heart when Sara tells me she&#8217;s bored learning how to use Word and Excel in Computer class. Now please don&#8217;t get me wrong. I&#8217;m not complaining about her teacher &#8211; a fine and qualified professional. I&#8217;m not complaining about the curriculum, nor about the state of our education system.  In no way would I ever expect the school to provide social software education.  But nothing says that <strong>I</strong> can&#8217;t.</p>
<div class="largeprint">Who&#8217;s in for a little <strong>extra-curricular</strong> activity?</div>
<p>So I approached the school and offered just that. I prepared a marked-up version of Cynapse&#8217;s Flash marketing material &amp; evangelized the virtues of, not only the mechanics of learning social software but the <strong>life lessons</strong> &#8211; I truly believe, it can teach the kids.</p>
<p>Our 30 minute meeting became an hour and a half and ended with a few action items:</p>
<ol>
<li>The school would have to agree to a trial period with the understanding that, if successful, they would continue the program.</li>
<li>Cynapse would have to agree to barter three months of free hosting in return for a modified version of their Best Practices Guide for Elementary School Students.</li>
<li>The students would have to volunteer for the extra-curricular activity and agree to collaborate on the Guide. Delivery of the Guide deems success.</li>
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<p>Since the meeting, the <strong>school</strong> has <strong>delivered</strong> on Action Item #1.  In addition, <strong>Cynapse</strong> has <strong>delivered</strong> on Action Item #2. So later this week, I&#8217;ll be presenting my offer to Sara&#8217;s Grade 6.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve since elaborated on my initial presentation by incorporating some keywords mentioned during our meeting and added the narration.  But after playing it back for Sara, she thought it may be &#8220;too much&#8221; and I should try to be more <strong>funny</strong>. <img src='http://stevenmilstein.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<div class="largeprint">Up <strong>next</strong></div>
<p>The problem was, I tried to create something that would appeal to too many audiences &#8211; students, school staff and maybe even parents.  So in the interest of outside-in development, I created two more videos which have passed the <strong>Sara Test</strong>. Once, approved by her teacher, I&#8217;ll start with those &amp; save the one above &#8211; hopefully, for another time.</p>
<div class="largeprint"><strong>Reflection</strong></div>
<p>Please feel free to share any thoughts, or, experience around social software in schools.</p>
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